Friday, September 01, 2006

Relationship Rules 101

Relationship Rules 101..Or should i call it..What a woman really wants!? Coz it really is one and the same..u guys jus have to accept tht she's goin to rule..as long as that is clear u are safe!
hehehe..I'm a girl..what did u expect?!The thing is the masculine brain is just not developed enough to understand us girls (unfortunately)...I can feel the heat already ;0)...so lemme quickly rephrase that..in reality the female brain can hardly understand us girls too (fortunately)..which is why u guys get off teh hook for the silly things u do all teh time!
The truth is.. yes, every relationship should be all about giving each other the freedom to be the person he or she is..Expectations are a part of every person..I guess when u love soemone enough u will happily bend enough to meet most of their expectations..as long as the better half gives u the freedom to bend or not to bend!
We women are really gentle beings at heart..we come in different packages is all..
There are the 'Femme fatales'..translated as dangerous women..if provoked this kind can really put u to shame with a tongue lash that u'll remember for teh rest of your life! what u dont know about them is that they are also the most gentle at heart..they can get hurt easily..
At the other extreme lies the loving kind..teh most common..the ones u tend to take for granted and love to hurt teh most..what u dont know about them is that they can make life a haven for teh guys they end up with!
somewhere in the spectrum lies the ones who've been hurt time and time again..they take to paying back in the tit for tat style..they are teh cynnical kind..what u dont know about them is tht they can be changed too..it takes a herculean personality to change them though!
Then there exist a mix and match.. all said n done watever the mix..they are all great at heart..
Mia for one is afraid she'll turn into a doormat for life..She's too accomodating..that's teh troble..wonder what destiny has in store? hopefully she will know by december..Cross all fingers.. :0)

yours lovingly,
som

2 comments:

bari-baba said...

Hi mia,
I got lost. We guys really don't understand when it comes to gals

Cat on a Hot tin RooF said...

Bari baba..doesnt surprise me..we really dont expect u guys to understand us..a few kind words ..some appreciation for all that we do....is all we ask for!